Are you a psychologist? You really know where Dr. Phil is coming from. I agree that you must keep trying, no matter what situation you are in. I really do like his approach, even if sometimes he seems a little too harsh. He makes people realize where they are and what they must do to get to where they want to be.

But even though he said tough, you have to deal with it, he did say that metabolism couldn't be used as an excuse because it really wasn't that big a factor that is could be used in the equation. (not his words, just my interpretation)

Carol