At least your daughter is mature enough to tell you, and at least she loves you enough to WANT to spend time with you!

Use this to YOUR advantage! Why be depressed over it? Your daughter misses you, and wants to spend time with you. She is reaching out, so take hold of it. You should treasure her young years because as she gets older it changes.

Go buy one of those jigsaw puzzles and spend the weekend with her putting it together and frame it or something Treasure the moment, for it's the only one we get in life.

And I am sure if you were really as bad a mother as you think you are she wouldn't want anything to do with you. Think about that. You are doing a great job if she wants to spend time with you!