This thread has brought up alot of memories for me today. I really feel for you and understand what you are going through. As you can see by some of the replies... this is not an uncommon situation. If you must get away for the weekend to compose yourself do so. But please address the situation soon as it will eat you up just not knowing what is going on.

Since this girl is so young it may well be just an online flirtation and is never meant to go any further BUT the next one might not be....

Things worked out well for my husband and I and that could be the outcome for you too. It was a wake up call for us both and has made our marriage stronger. Trust can be restored through communication if you are BOTH willing to work at it. Good luck and best wishes to you.

Akiwican