I'm sorry that your little baby is sick. That is such a bad situation. They are so little and unable to tell you what they are feeling. I hope he's well soon. My grandson got sick everytime he was cutting a tooth. His Mom did the same thing.
You ask about my bench press. Well, I have no spotter, and so when I feel that it's risky to try the next rep, I stop. That's pretty much the method I use for squats and bench press. Lifts I can exhaust on without killing myself, I go to failure, most of the time. And I love doing negitives. I have a nice soreness this morning too . I'm not losing as fast as I was hoping. I'm down another 1/2 pound today, but I've been checking each morning for ketosis, and I'm still negitive, and my ring is still tight, so maybe when my body gets regulated again, more of the poundage will go. I hope, I hope, I hope.