I don't hate myself for being overweight. I would rather be thin for many reasons but hating myself would just suck. I have spent years trying to improve my self esteem and have to accept myself no matter what my size. I think it's ok to be a bit overweight as long as it's not out of control and your health is ok . It's just not that easy to be perfect so a few pounds are not the end of the world. Look at Bridget Jones, her guy loves her just the way she is. By the way I really liked part 2.(shameless plug). So anyway while I am working on on new self and self image I refuse to beat myself up for having some extra pounds.