Hi, joining the thread.

First, I have a comment about medications. Prozac can be the better medicine for some people. It is the medicine that has the least tendency to add weight which may be some concern since we are on a weight loss forum.

Second, about the complaining guy at work. How about a two prong approach: (1) over his head, documenting for yourself and personnel reference if needed his harrassment, and working with him to provide the best product you can to him and (2) working with the staff in general to maintain as high a performance and quality level as possible, seeking their suggestions occasionally if helpful. Don't go overboard in self-monitoring - that is the biggest trap. It is after all "not about you" but "about the work done" from the employers point of view. I am having trouble explaining what I mean, but I am not criticizing you, just suggesting a couple of strategies.

Betsy