Hmmmm...sounds like that episode of Sex and the City where Miranda sees a guy she used to know who was overweight, but when they saw eachother, he lost tons of weight and they went to a fancy dinner and ordered the best steak on the menu, and he would take a bite, chew it all he could, and spit it in his napkin. Miranda got totally disgusted and left. I thought of that when I read this post!! LOL