Boy O boy do I agree with U! I have often said if I could have a tummy tuck and a boob lift I would have the body of a 20 yr old. LOL The reality is that Im 37 and I cant change much so I need to just except who I am...LOL and look at myself naked in the dark I suppose. As for your concern about intimacy....Maybe it will be better in the end...meaning when U feel really comfortable with someone it will be more special?