I have to agree and echo what you're hearing here. One minute at a time if that's what it takes. Remember who you are doing this for (look in a mirror). This is about you and your needs. Only you. Be selfish. I know we are taught not to be, but this is your life, your health, your happiness.

Any boy (not man, because no "man" would do this) who is only interested in you as a thin person is pretty shallow. I had one like that once and I dropped him like a hot rock and never looked back. There are so many nice grown up men out there who will love you for who you are now, not what you "might be of you just lost the weight". My advice - lose the loser and let a replacement find you. And he will.

Come back here any time for support and know that you are worth it. You deserve to have the life and body you want free from others making disparaging comments.

You go girl. We're here for you!!!

Julie