You can't expect other people to be responsible for for the way you feel about yourself. It is the other way around!

YOU decide you are worth some effort. YOU decide at what weight you feel attractive. YOU decide what kind of person you want to be. YOU decide if other people are worth your time...or not.

Constantly letting other people decide these things for you only leads to disaster. What makes someone else more qualified that YOU to decide what you will do? When you were three years old, sure, you needed it then. There's a good reason we don't let toddlers make a lot of decisions...but it's so much better to be an adult!

It really is as simple as deciding that you will be grown up now, and make your own decisions. Once you do it a few times, you will like it so much, you won't want to stop!