It's funny...when i was this size before going up, I had plenty of men pawning over me-(all complete losers), this time its the opposite, but like I said, it has to do with where I'm living because I am more confident this time, more happy with myself and that certainly doesn't attract losers-(good)-because they look for women who feel bad about themselves. But it also has to do with where you live. Some places are fat friendly while others shun heavier women unless their thinner. This seems to be the case for here because I've lived here for several years and have been this size and more and at each weight I never attracted men here. I guess there's too many thin women walking around-LOL! It's a college town...anyway, I think once I lose about 30 more lbs I'll actually start seeing guys look my way, which is fine...I'm excited about even getting near that point, it's better than crying wondering why life is passing me by. I know one thing, I won't be invisible for long!!!