Lizzy...my apologies..I did not mean to offend anyone who has reached a mature age. When I said she's "77 and you can imagine" I meant that even a tiny fracture is serious business for someone like her who is elderly and frail.

As for the rest, I'm not going to defend it, other than 3 year olds require a lot of attention, and that's exactly what she is getting, with a lot of love thrown in.

I've removed the bulk of my post so it doesn't offend anyone else.