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Old Sat, May-22-04, 15:38
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Originally Posted by tcastro
I would say that fat people are treated differently and should be, but the extent to which they are mistreated is much greater than it should be.

Racial discrimination is discrimination against something you did not choose and cannot help. However, you can help being fat. If you're fat, its a reflection of you, your habits and your character. If you're fat (and don't have a gland problem), then you've gotten that way, because you were lazy and didn't watch what you ate. I know that's how I got fat. It reflects on you and people saw me as a lazy slob and in many ways...I was.

Now, the level to which they are mistreated is much greater than it should be. I know some people saw me when I was fat and felt I was less motivated than someone that was thin. To some extent, they were right. However, others saw me as a slob, an ugly person and 'below' them. That's not right.

If I was an employer and there were 2 equal candidates for a job, but one was fat and one was thin, I'd choose the thin one. There's just a better chance he'll be more motivated, all other things being equal. Now if the fat person is much more intelligent, has more experience and better references and I still chose the thin one, that's taking it too far.


Well, Hello Mr. Stereotyper! I know lots of fat people who are fat for a variety of reasons. Some because of illness, or injury, some because of depression, some because its genetic, some because they tried to eat a healthy diet called Low-fat and it made them fatter.

I used to be a budding martial artist, until my knees got too bad for it (another genetic condition), and I was still fairly hefty depsite many days a week of intense physical conditioning. In fact, quite a few of the very good martial artists were stout. But damn, they could probably kick you and your sterotypes into the next county. Those folks weren't lazy, they were just big.

I personally wouldn't leap to the conclusions about fat people like you did because my eating patterns that were caused by my diet are probably 90% responsible for my being overweight. It had nothing to do with laziness or will power, but a lot to do with suffering from hunger from rising and falling blood sugar.
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