oy vei nik. u just gave me a flashback! when i was like 11 or 12 years old, i gave up candy for lent. on day 1 in the evening, my father had a bag of gumdrops and offerred me 1, i took one & ate it- totally forgetting about giving candy up for lent. as soon as i ate it, he laughed at me and tormented me over it and i ran to my room crying i still remember that to this day, although i havent thought about it in a while. it was SO MEAN of him- man- no wonder i have eating complexes. i would HOPE that my DH & MIL were not being maliciously evil like that