Ruth,
I understand what you are saying. I think it really has to do with where you are in your weight loss. Everyone knows their own weaknesses and strengths...like I said earlier, when it was my birthday I chose not to do the cake and ice cream tradition. The kids understood and were very supportive. But now that I have several months under my belt and quite a bit of success, I felt I could handle a splurge. I was just saying that everyone has their own way of handling it. I find that there are times when I don't think there will be anything I could eat at a social event and then find that there is plenty that is OK for me on this WOE. I feel for all those that have to deal with all the Christmas goodies people bring to office parties. But your suggestions of bringing something that works for your WOE or eating before hand are great ideas.

I'm sorry if I sounded peeved. I know you were only trying to share your thoughts as well. Victoria