All of the above...plus:

The squeezy, nagging tightness of the waistband of the jeans that used to be too loose cutting into my stomach.

Being the one all the guys confide in about the one they think is SO beautiful.... but it's not you, it's a 98-lb bimbo.

Not being able to get in the pool with my son without a glance around to see who's looking at my flab. I still get IN the pool since he loves it so, but I could do without the self-conscious dash between clothes and water!

The sight of hanging flabalanches when I get out of the shower. Either the flab goes or the mirror does!