You know what, you are probably right. I've been told by people after I've know them for awhile, that they thought i was mean when they first noticed me. But after they get to know me, they realize that I'm really down to earth and nice. [not to toot my own horn] I do have a certain heir about myself. I am very confident. But I'm not trying to be a witch. I LOVE people and i will talk your ear off if you let me. I don't want to have to tone down my confidence level. I am approachable. All you have to say is "hi" and we can talk.