I think its confidence for me as well. But I'm sorta in the same boat as Vanity3. I was always the one with a boyfriend or guy friends and always getting approached even when I was 325. And I have been in a situation that guys will stare but will not say anything I don't know what thats all about. But now that my weight loss a showing (to everyone else, I really can't tell). Guy's talk more and I do think its the confidence I have within that's showing even more on the outside. But I'm getting married in some months so I don't pay it any attention but it still feels good to see that others find you attrative.