I have a totally opposite story.

I always thought I was good looking. Even at 260 pounds. I always had dates. That was never a problem. But since I hit 160 and a size 8, I don't get hit on! Now believe me, it's not a confidence problem, because i'll be the first to tell you that i"m cute! But I don't understand what it is.

I asked my best friend who is male what his opinion was. He gave me this crock of B.S. about men being nervous to approach extemely attactive women. Fear of rejection or fear of actually getting the girl and having every other man in the world checking out your girlfriend.

As a whole I think he is referring to the men's lack of confidence. But please, MEN in the FORUM. Give me your opinion.

I do have a boyfriend now that I love dearly, but I met him on the internet, not in person. And i wonder if the situation had of been different and we met in person, would we be together now at all. HUMMMMM

I would like to hear other people's input.