Oh I have to agree..Confidence!!!

Before if anyone looked at me I thought they were looking at me and judging my fat!!! If anyone smiled at me I took it as a smurk...I always thought people were judging me and making fun of me...Crazy huh...

Now I work at a bar and I strut around and I can actually tell when someone is checking me out...I also was hit on a couple of time before losing weight and didn't realize it till recently when these individuals told me...LOL...I now recognise a "come on" I mean if someone is all touchy feely...hanging with me and making comments...I now know they are interested and not just picking with me and wanting to be friends.