Yes & no. Sometimes I am a people pleaser, most of the time probably. But, I don't get large numbers of unreasonable requests either, so it's a little easier to accomodate people if they aren't being unreasonable.

I try to be nice. I like the fact that I'm considerate of others feelings and needs though I don't always feel it's reciprocated, I've decided that I'd rather still be that way than not be.

So I'd have to say in general I am a people pleaser, but I'm not so much of one that I can't say no if I really want to and I guess I can be proud of the fact that if we really do teach others how to treat us, that I seem to have taught others to not abuse my helpfulness with too many unreasonable requests.

Valerie