Potatofree ~ you took the words right out of my mouth!

I used to be that doormat too....Ok, I guess I still am to an extent. I am trying very hard to let go of that....it is especially hard when someone is offended or hurt when I now say no.....and even now when I have said no....sometimes I overturn my own decsions because I feel so bad that people are angry or hurt. It's a hard thing to let go of when I've been like this my entire life.....but I am working on it and my hubby is very supportive of me. He knows how it all makes me feel.....he's so terrific!