STARZ, Before you go out seeking strong relationship, form a strong relationship with that woman in the mirror. If you cannot hold your hand or hug yourself or love yourself don't expect anyone else to. A man does not make the woman that you are and never allow anyone to have that power over you or you will self destruct. You can build your self esteem by remaining comitted to your LC WOE ( to start ). Now go out and rent you a nice instrument and learn how to play it. I recommend the flute ( I am a flute teacher ). Take a college course or go back to college and major in something that you are passionate about. What are you passionate about? Realize your passions and I promise you, your self esteem will flourish and maybe the guy that you deserve will waltz into your life.

I am not just sending words out, I have been there and I have done that!

Black57