fluffybear - I agree with the other posts that you just need to not worry about what your DH does and do whats right for you.

When I first started this WOL my husband and son were all supportive. I only cooked meat and veggies, salad....all the good stuff. Well about 3 months in my husband (who by the way is 6'0 and 175) says to me that he's been losing weight and really doesn't need to. Mind you he was very nice about it.

Well I thought about it and realized that both my husband and 10 year old son need more carbs in their diet then I do. So i gradually started cooking a starch with dinner. I have in the house...cereal, poptarts etc....because that is what my son likes.

I've just made the choice not to eat them. Yes it's very hard at times. But I feel much better about myself and how I look. That... I will never give up for anyone. Just be strong and put your mind to it!