Look Karen I don't want to argue with you at all. But you came into this thread telling us how we dont deserve to complain about our situations. You don't know me at all, and have no right to tell me what I can or can't do, much less what my life has been like. You also have no right to tell me that I'm complaining all the time. When you loose a child due to the military like I have, you come talk me then. A converstion between myself and someone else on this board is just that.

I could make a retort to every one of your claims....but it's not worth my morning. You obviously think you're right about everyone elses life. Think what you would like about me, I'm not concerned. Just remember, because you have liked something and want to pursue it for life, doesn't mean everyone else does. My husband's enlistment will be up relatively soon, and the government says he has a right to leave. I don't need your support to do that.