Just as a small aside to this conversation, I also agree it's not fair of me to ask my family to completely stop eating the foods they enjoy. I do think that in the beginning, when things are hardest, we can ask them to help out though.

It doesn't bother me at all anymore when my sister eats chocolates, I can even go with them to Baskin Robbins for ice cream and not have any these days, but I think time helps alot with that. In the beginning, it was a good deal harder.

Valerie