Valerie

If that is something that you really want in your life then let that be part of your inspiration for losing the weight.I sometimes think that one's change in attitude after losing weight makes one more "approachable" as a person.
You are beautiful and still young. You could have a wonderfull life with a partner if that is what you need and want....

Make it happen for yourself if that is what you really want .....Go girl.......