I totally agree with you!! If my DH EVER suggested that I wasn't perfect for him just the way I am, we'd have serious issues. But he such a sweetie, he applauds me when I tell him I've lost even one pound, and says if I stay the way I am for the rest of my life that's fine with him too. He totally accepts me the way I am, he just wants me to be happy. He has been "mostly" supportive in my WOE, but doesn't care to join me, and even gets upset because he's gaining weight eating the stuff I make low-carb (because he eats that PLUS the high-carb stuff)! I told him, if he would just do Atkins with me, he wouldn't have these problems!