you poor poor thing.

It stings and hurts so much, i know.

Similar things happened to me and the pain is fresh. its stuns a person that people can be so hurtful and cruel towards another person.

once in work there was a picture of a veyr very large person in the paper - the article was about obesity problems here - and a fellow worker said - "this is all about you!" in front of everyone. and they all thought it very funny.

as you can imagine - the pain hurt! i went to the bathroom and cried and cried and cried... i stayed there until time to go home and waited until everyone had left to get my things.

I felt less than human. a figure of laughter and fun.

I felt like leaving work! but the next day i went in and the person apologised for the comment. but it still hurt.

I have lost weight - but because of this and other comments - in my mind i am less of a person - a sub person...

I hope when i reach goal these feelings will go.

Forget these stupid people and comments and use them as a weapon against cheating!

Good Luck.