when I married the she dog from hell herafter refered to as the ex rather than the name I would like to call her she would moan shout and generally make a big fuss whenever my friends came around for me to do the stuff I did before marriage. I was size 28 waist which is about size 10-12 for womens sizes (uk) weighing in at around 10-11 stone (140-154 pounds) and was a wopping 16 stone ish (224 pounds) when I finally left and have basically yo yoed since then this is the first time i have consciousley tried to do something about it though.