Good thread, Pam. Sometimes I think we are a little quick to say that others are "sabotaging" our efforts when that may not be what they're doing.

My husband was a little freaked out at first by my uncompromising stand. For him, I think the reason was that he wants to do this WOL as well but has a hard time wrapping his mind around the concept of completely giving something up. When I told him that as I got closer to goal I would be more willing to, say, have a fairly high-carb meal once a month or so (after I figured out that that won't be a problem for me, probably), he relaxed and is more open to this WOL.