I find that most people who have never done LC (and some who have) are simply ignorant about this WOE and seriously think that "just one meal" won't hurt (and maybe it won't but YOU should decide that not them). My family is generally great about my WOE and don't question it but co workers (some who have even done LC themselves) say things like "oh come on you can cheat today" or "why won't you go out to eat with us?". The real problem is when they lie to you and the decision to "cheat" is taken away from you. The bottom line is that going "off plan" should be up to that person not their family, friends or co workers. If you make it clear that they will no longer enjoy your company if they cannot respect your WOE and continue to ridcule and sabotage your efforts then they will back off.