Whyspers: Interesting, vel-l-l-ly interesting. I've been lackluster all my life: lots of great goals and very little follow through (darn ADHD, why didn't they know about this stuff 30 years ago ). It might be a fear of sucess thing. But, and its a big BUT, I've never felt this much confidence and self-esteem before. I feel like I can take on anything and win.

Now if I could just inspire my partner more, he seems more threatened than encouraged by my sucess. men, sheez! Can't live with 'em, can't shoot 'em. Ah well, he has to do things for himself, just like I do things for me.

Thanks again for all the insight.