Hi Cloud37, welcome. I wish my DW would go along with me on this woe. On the other hand I am stronger and more motivated than she is and it is easier to outright tell her no when she "suggests" I have something I don't want.

If we were doing this together she could play the "I love you-let's cheat" card on me and make it more difficult for me to follow my plan.

Good luck and if you are the stronger one, maybe the next time he wants to cheat you can resist. Who knows, you may have a positive influence on his will power.