OMG !! I know how you feel. DH is a truck driver (w/diabetes & hb) and swore he could not do any diet because of his work. Ever try to pull a semi into a resturant parking lot?? But as long as I have foods prepared and packaged in the fridge for him to grab in the morning...he's doing wonderfully!! Somedays I get really resentful that its all up to me....but I'm pretty much the same way. If its not handy and ready...McDonalds will look real tempting. Its a lot of work spending every Sunday chopping, mixing, bagging foods for the week. But...its just the way WE have to do it...or it don't get done and the scales (for both of us) climb back up.
Somedays...I wish I had a wife!!!!