Greetings,

Although I am on weight loss hiatus because of pregnancy, I know EXACTLY what you are talking about.

Same here, many a man I had corresponded with electronically, who saw my pictures etc, suddenly were'nt interested after we met. Feeling rejected sucks, especially after feeling like you were so upfront about things.

There ARE REAL MEN out there who DO appreciate bbw! I was having a summer party, and my good friend Meg was there. Her boyfriend was at a Yankees game with his best friend. they showed up towards the end of the party and he introduced me to his friend, who a little over one year later would become my husband.

He met me at my all time high weight, and just kept saying to me what an amazing woman I was, great career, beautiful home, tons of friends...

NEVER has he mentioned my weight because to him, its not an issue.

As a truely beautiful person, you WILL meet a wonderful man, who will appreciate you for being you. As for those others, ITS THEIR LOSS!!!!!!!!