soulcysters has been a great place for me since being diagnosed, i have many friends there and they are very friendly.My Gyn has told me losing weight with pcos will be alot harder then for someone without pcos, and also Pcos tends to make you put weight on around stomach and thighs ( and for me my bum) lol
I guess it's yet another hurdle for us but i am sure with extra determination we can all lose our tummys in the end. Good luck