Your right about that. We sure do have a lot in common. Although I wish I were you going on that cruise. I haven't really pampered myself. Although I love to tan, and right after the holidays, I plan to start tanning again. I don't get fried or anything, but I love having some color. I always thought it made me look "skinnier" and now I'm wondering what will happen. LOL.

Gemma.. Hope your still here. Even with the amazing loss I have had, I still get discouraged sometimes. I feel like this just has to be too good to be true. I'm wearing a size 14, which I haven't worn since before having children (who are now 8 and 3) and feeling good about myself. There is so much encouragement around here.