I've been seriously thinking about all that you have offered...

Yes,Mattie.. I have bought new clothes and changed my hairstyle dramatically...but, I dress up for him, work and to go out equally. He doesn't bring home high-carb foods at all.

He makes snide comments if a man in looks in my direction, throws a fit every time I go to the gym or water aerobics and complains about me following "this crazy diet" when we eat out. I keep my WOE on the DL...always have...but, for once my self-esteem is not rock bottom and I actually feel good about myself.

I am gonna have a long talk with him and if things don't improve...we'll have to make some hard decisions.

Thanks so much...I appreciate the 'free therapy'. haha

keli