Wed, Dec-03-03, 10:19
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Posts: 158
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Plan: Atkins
Stats: 000/000/000
BF:
Progress: 43%
Location: New York, NY
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Originally Posted by gotbeer
So, given that you have all these conditions, why not allow your SO to have one of his own? Like, "stay thin" or "lose weight"? Isn't that a bit more reasonable than "hey, let's go kidnap a new 14-year old for me to marry, too"?
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Ha ha ha! Ok, you and you alone brought that comparison up, so this rhetorical question really carries no weight in this argument. Any sane individual would say that it is "more" reasonable to ask someone to lose weight than to ask someone to commit a felony, but no one suggested that.
Unconditional love debate aside, I DO NOT think it is reasonable for my SO to expect me to conform to his or her idea of what I should look like. But that's just me..and my feelings about that are reflected in who I choose to date (i.e. I only date folks who share similar ideas regarding respect and love). |