My DH was always telling me I looked wonderful, even at my heaviest while pregnant (260), but now that I've lost so much I find he's much more attentive, even going as far as picking me up, LOL. I now weigh 3 pounds more than him, I am proud of that. He's always been a little guy at 5'7", and not heavy, just muscular. I do notice being treated somewhat differently by his side of the family though, almost as if they're afraid to talk to me. I'm sure as they all get used to my new figure, they'll come around again. It's sad to see how some people get mad (especially friends) at everyone's weightloss. You'd think they'd be happy for us?

melissa