Sat, Nov-29-03, 21:51
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Senior Member
Posts: 109
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Plan: healthy eating/water/walk
Stats: 163/155/120
BF:?/28%/20%
Progress: 19%
Location: Quebec Canada
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HI ALL!!!!! LOTS OF VERY INTENSE OPINIONS HERE!!!
I'm not sure if any of you have noticed, I've read a lot of post speaking of how he is humiliating his wife, however, this is a couples venture (assuming it's real), it was decided by both him and her to do the poll.
So this leaves only the fact that (if it were true) he is being unkind. However, he has agreed that if people find he is out of line that he would merely renew his wedding vows and be done with it. I think this man is not as lost as many find him to be, otherwise he would not be seeking the opinion of others. He would not need people to back him up. And even if they do, majority rules. He loves her, otherwise they would not have made it through 5 years, but he still has to sleep with her, and he has difficulty doing so while her looks deteriorate, then he has the right to tell her instead of instantly leaving her and leave her wondering why.
I think he's done the right thing with his wife by bringing it up. Communication. Now, imagine that the site is her doing, not his.
-mildwild
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