I am really happy to hear that there are so many people out there like this. I too, get compliments, I have learned to say thank you, and move on, but then I go home and look in the mirror, and see fat, fat, fat. My husband thinks that I look fantastic, but I am flabby in places I don't want to be, and I have lost almost all of my boobs!! But, I did start wearing thong undies too, and I even splurged this weekend an bought a pair a Victoria Secret. I have never paid that much for underware before!! It makes me feel good about myself, (and a little naughty at work) to wear them. I also like to wear my jeans tight now, and they don't show panty lines!! But, put me in front of the bathroom mirror naked, and I still only see the fat!!