I am not sure if i would do that for a guy , at this point,
I think i would have told him cooking for me was incredibly sweet... but I have a WOE that is different than most...and the reason I look so incredible... is because of that way of eating...I would have had the meat dish... or if chop suey... had the toppings... but not the rice...

If the guy didn't understand... than we wouldn't be having the problem with the rice again... another guy would understand...

Other than that rant ... I don't think rice once after a year is bad...