This is the way I see it. The weight someone wants to be is their own personal business. I think it's rude when people accuse other's of eating disorders. If you don't know the person, you really don't know what their body looks like or how they carry weight, or what weight they would look good at. I have friends who are 5'5" and 105 and they look perfectly fine. Some people here would tell them rude comments. Who are we to judge what others should weigh? I think we should answer the question they present but keep our feelings about their weight to ourselves. If someone is aneorexic I don't think categorizing and telling them they are nuts is helpful. It takes a lot for a person with an eating disorder to get help and I don't think that a stranger telling them they are too thin is going to help. Just my opinion.