Sinbad and Rosebud, you're both darlings and much more measured than me! I think I must have been in a particular grouch yesterday!
I did think the 'advice' some people gave was a bit harsh, but me whinging about it isn't any better.
Rosebud, they didn't actually say those things, it just felt like it.
Fortunately I have woken up in a much sunnier mood - I resolve to look for the good intentions behind people's posts and not get mad and mutter.

You're right about the anorexic folk - it is so worrying and yet so hard to know how to deal with them best - I can see (this morning ) why someone might get so scared or exasperated they lecture them.

Enough - Jay goes away to practise being less grouchy.
Take care,

(Edited in - P.S. Hi 60'schild, we must have been posting at the same time!)