Oh my, I really feel for you. Maybe once you arrive, you can have a speech prepared of your own, outlining what you are doing and that you intend to sticking with the plan, that you feel great and it's your business alone - hopefully hubby backs you up on this, and don't eat what you don't want to eat -- You are grown now and can make your own decisions and they should respect your wishes. My MIL,every holiday makes so many deserts and then gets upset because nobody eats them, but then always says, she's giving up sweets for Lent. We're going for Thanksgiving and like you, I'll be ***mned if I'm going eat what I don't want to. Good luck, everyone is here for you.

Vikki