Thanks hey_neener!!!
I understand that pressure thing, thanks for pointing it out, but fortunately he KNOWS he needs to lose the weight, he FEELS horrible (tired all the time, achy, etc....) and I do NOT make him feel like he is unappealing or anything, but with this WOL, we KNOW the weight will come off if we keep to it, and fortunately it comes off fast the first few days, so we get this wonderful boost of confidence, and I am thinking if he sees the scale going down, he will have that boost!!!
Thanks!!
Heidi