Hi Heidi - I'm in Minnesota, too!

I've learned over the years that we CAN'T do anything to make our husbands do anything...

I'd suggest laying off the pressure tactics. Instead, be proud about how great you look, brag to him/in front of him, etc. Maybe some of your good vibes will rub off on him and he will give it a shot.

In the meantime, just be happy that you have changed yourself - you are the one person you can change!

Missy
(crystal, MN)