i can totally relate... My husband's grandmother lives very close to us, and she raised him up, so we would go there all the time for dinners. ANyway, when i told her that i wasn't doing carbs anymore, she wanted to know why, she wanted to know how, etc. Everything would have been fine, but she asks me all the same questions a couple times a day. she'll call me and ask me. i didn't really tell many people besides her and my husband, just to avoid the questions. ya know.. so, when i start losing inches, and people start noticing and they ask me how i did it, i'm going to tell them i finally found something that works. and i'm going to leave it at that...